Wednesday, November 28, 2012

Baby Big Heads

It is no secret that my children have big heads.  One day I was commenting that Evie was a "baby big head."  Reminiscing I said, "Edmund I remember when you were a baby big head." 
Edmund said, "Mom, I'm still cute.  I have cute shirts."  
I replied, "Yes you do, but you have a cute face too."

Cute Boy Had Cute Shirts Even Then
 

Who Says Art is Dull?

The Picture Taken By the Chapelboro Photographer
On July 22, 2011 Edmund and I went to a Family Day at the Ackland Art Museum.  I intended to write about our adventure back then, but never got around to it.  Or I did and I'm too lazy to check the old posts.  I'm not sure why or how, but when I wrote the date on the artwork Edmund made that day it engrained in my memory.  We kept his stamp art on the refrigerator for awhile, and then, because it didn't make the monthly art save, ended up in the recycling.  That was almost a year and a half ago, but still that day is fresh in my mind and apparently is in Edmund's mind as well.

For months now Edmund has been begging to go back to the "art museum."  The Ackland Art Museum is located on UNC's campus and now that we're in Durham can be a bit of a drive to do with both kids.  However, Steven has been working long hours and I knew I needed to get out of the house this past weekend.  I did a web search to see when the next monthly Family Day would take place.  I was in luck when I discovered it was on Sunday.  Edmund couldn't contain his excitement when I told him we were going.

Japanese Pattern Inspired Art
Since it was post Thanksgiving weekend I found parking easily.  I mention parking because that was my biggest hesitation about doing this outing on my own.  You may recall that after the symphony Edmund fears my parking abilities, and I didn't want that to be another outing hitch.  With Evie in her Beco (our soft carrier) and Edmund's hand in mine we walked to the museum.  When we entered we were greeted by volunteers who informed us of the afternoon's activities.  The topic of this particular Family Day was "Images of People in Japanese Art" which corresponded to the current exhibit "A Season of Japan."  We began with an art scavenger hunt, but not before having our picture taken by a photographer for Chapelboro.com.  Evie peeked up from chewing on the straps of the Beco long enough to be stunned by the camera flash.

Edmund quickly found several items on the scavenger hunt, but soon tired of the game and asked to go make some art.  He sat down at the table and got to work on art inspired by Japanese patterns.  The volunteer was incredibly friendly and helpful with him and the other children.  She helped Edmund cut ribbon so I could walk with Evie who wanted nothing to do with standing still.   After Edmund signed his artwork we went back to the lockers where I had stored the diaper bag so I could retrieve some wipes.  While I cleaned up the spit-up that Evie had lovingly bestowed upon me, Edmund chatted up a security guard who was clearly trying to eat a snack in peace.  The guard, like the volunteer at the craft station, was incredibly friendly and engaged Edmund for quite some time.  Once Edmund finds someone who will listen to him it's hard to get him to stop talking, so I had to drag him away.

Origami Dog
Next we went and viewed some Japanese pop art.  Edmund found a room behind a curtain showing Japanese pop art films made in the 70s.  The psychadelic like films got Evie's attention and she found them worthy enough for a few minutes of time away from her strap chewing.  Family Day was about to come to a close, so I encourage Edmund to try his hand at origami before it was time to leave.  There was a very simple dog pattern that Edmund did with only a little help from me.  I helped him match corners, but he did all the folding and drew a very cute face.  This was the perfect way to wrap up our time at the art museum.

As we exited the museum I told Edmund we could go to Sugarland, a dessert shop on Franklin St., for some gelato.  To my surprise Edmund asked what Sugarland was.  In all honesty I suspected the reason Edmund kept begging to go back to the art museum was because he remembered we finished our last outing there with a sweet treat.  While we did have a great time at Sugarland, and I got to eat my favorite peppermint stick gelato, I was encouraged that Edmund really does enjoy a bit of culture.  And who knows?  In a couple of years, my strap eating baby may even be cultured as well.

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Evie at the Helm

Nothing Says Fun More Than Chilling in a Giant Fish
So I know I'm the second kid and all, but where's my time on this blog.  I'm supposed to be napping, but I've decided to seize the blog reigns and give you a little update on me, "Ev", "Evie", "Shmonkey", or the "cutiest baby you've ever seen".

 I took a road trip to see lots of relatives like my Nannie, Aunt Zann, Kay Kay and Granddad.  I decided this was the perfect time to make my parents suffer.  I wailed in the car and they couldn't escape, ha ha ha.

I went to two birthday parties for buddies who were turning one.  At one I was held by lots of different people and fell asleep when it was time to open presents.  At the other I took notes on how to smash a cake.  Just wait until it's my turn. 

I helped carve my first jack-o-lantern.  Mommy really wanted me to touch the guts, but I was too tired and ready for bed.  She should know I'd only want to put them in my mouth anyway.

I went trick-or-treating.  This involved dressing up like a little elephant and watching my brother and his friends running around the neighborhood like crazy people.  I do that most days anyway without dressing up, but I saw myself in the mirror and must say I looked mighty cute.

I tasted my first bite of rice cereal.  Mom and dad were about to give up, but then they gave in, gave me the spoon and I ate it all.  I'm a big girl and have things under control.

That about covers my first October.  If I'm not given my due time in November you may hear from me again.  Just don't give away my secret.  Remember, I'm napping ;)

The Valiant Knight

The Knight going off into battle with his trusty...Elephant
About a month ago one of my mommy friends told me about a concert series for kids put on by the North Carolina Symphony.  I have had the symphony bookmarked on my computer since Edmund was about a year old as a fun out of the box activity.  Around that time I learned that Edmund is a kid with sensitivities to loud, even moderately loud noises, and dim or dark lighting, so I put the symphony out of mind until my friend mentioned it.  Edmund has made progress in the things he can handle as of late.  He's now seen a movie in the theater and even greatly enjoyed a bouncy house excursion after the initial tears subsided.  I love live instrumental music and wanted Edmund to have an opportunity to experience it, so I took a chance and bought a ticket to one show.  Until I tested the waters I wasn't about to buy the whole series package.

While Evie could have gone on this outing, it was best suited for a mother/son date.  The concert was entitled Halloween Spooktackular and children were encouraged to dress up in costume.  Edmund was thrilled with a chance to premiere his knight costume a couple of days early.  We arrived at the concert hall with about 10 minutes to spare.  There were musicians set up in the lobby with instruments for children to try.  We had time for Edmund to choose one before it was time to take our seats.  Edmund chose the violin and the violinist on hand found one just the right size for him.  He instructed Edmund on how to hold the violin under his chin and the proper way to hold the bow.  Edmund was a bit too enthusiastic when he took the bow to the strings, but with some guidance the musician was able to reign him in. After his 2 minute lesson Edmund looked like a true concert master.
Little Elephant

Over the loudspeaker we heard our 5 minute show call and found our seats.  I strategically purchased aisle seats in case we needed to make an early exit.  Soon the lights dimmed and I talked Edmund through it.  He settled in and excitedly awaited the beginning of the concert.  The concert began with Hedwig's Theme from the Harry Potter score.  This was a great song to begin with because it remains fairly quiet throughout.  I also knew when the crescendo was coming and was able to prepare Edmund for it.  Edmund, who was now settled in my lap, tensed up at this, but still enjoyed it.

Next a storyteller told a "spooky" story as the orchestra played behind her.  Edmund was at the edge of his seat, er my lap, and bravely told me he wasn't scared.  The concert continued with Storm Troopers making their way through the audience as Darth Vader took control from the conductor to conduct his "Imperial March." Edmund has been very into Star Wars, although he has not seen the films, so this was a treat for him.  Once I assured him that these were people pretending and the conductor was indeed not in Darth Vader's grasp, Edmund was enraptured by the scene playing out before him.


Mommy and Daddy-"Smile Edmund."
Edmund "This is my brave knight face."
After another slightly chilling story from the storyteller it was time for the costume parade.  Edmund couldn't wait for his turn, but wanted me to walk on stage with him.  Not because he was afraid of the costumes, but because he was fearful the orchestra would get too loud.  I walked with him to the stage, but to my surprise he chose to parade without me.  As I waited for him to come down the steps I saw the biggest smile cross his face.  He was so proud.  

It was now time to go and I'd like to tell you the outing went off without a hitch.  Unfortunately I had a bit of trouble locating my car in the parking deck at concert's end.  It was a small parking deck and Edmund and I eventually found the car after walking around each level.  In my defense the car was where I looked initally.  The lights didn't blink when I clicked the remote, so I assumed I'd gone to the wrong place.  In fact I'd love to leave this little detail out of the trip altogether, but my son is now old enough to tell on me.  When friends and family ask how the symphony was, his response, "It was great until my mommy got lost in the parking deck and I was so scared."  So before my son can tell on me to anyone else, I'm telling on myself.

 Since I haven't talked much about Evie this post you will see some of her Halloween pictures scattered throughout.